Nigeria
‘After my divorce, I had a lot of success’
Kano, Nigeria Growing up in a family of clerics in northwest Nigeria, which has the country’s highest prevalence of child marriage, Khadijah was expected to be a young bride. “A girl cannot be more than 14 without getting married off,” she says. She became a bride at 13. But she ultimately did not accept limitations on her education, for which she “sold all my property to pay for my studies.”
Transcript:
My name is Khadijah Isyaku Muhammad. I am from Kano municipality in Nigeria’s Kano state.
I was married off at age 13.
I’m a member of the Fulani tribe and come from a family of clerics.
Even now in our family, a girl cannot be more than 14 without getting married off.
Yes, I can say it was an arranged marriage, because at the time, I could not differentiate between love and hate. I don’t know what love is.
His family didn’t follow our marriage customs, except they provided a dowry and wedding gifts.
I had not begun menstruating when I married. I started in my husband’s house.
I suffered a lot during childbirth, because I was young at the time.
We have three children.
INTERVIEWER: How many years were you married?
Eight years.
INTERVIEWER: Now that you are divorced, what are you doing?
First of all, I have to thank my God. After my divorce, I had a lot of success.
At first, I wondered how to go back to school, even though everyone in my family opposed it. They wanted me to marry again.
Then I sold all my property to pay for my studies. I studied mass communication because I really love journalism.
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